Simple DBT-Inspired Principle for Mental Health 

By Gola Mohammadi, Certified DBT Practitioner 

1. Accept Reality, Not the Struggle 

Radical Acceptance means letting go of the mental fight against what already is. 
It doesn’t mean you agree with or approve of the situation, it simply means you stop resisting reality. 

This shift reduces emotional suffering, brings clarity, and frees up energy to take meaningful, effective action. 

2. Finding Your Wise Mind 

In the fast-paced of our modern life, it’s easy to swing between two mental extremes when navigating challenges: 

• Emotion Mind:  where decisions are driven by strong feelings, impulses, and reactions. 
• Reasonable Mind: where choices are made from logic alone, sometimes lacking warmth or context. 

DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) offers us a third and more balanced option: 

Wise Mind. 

Wise Mind is the calm, centered space where emotion and reason work together. It’s not about suppressing your emotions or ignoring logic. Instead, it’s about integrating them. Listening to your gut and your head, to make grounded, thoughtful decisions. 

Why does this matter? 

Wise Mind invites us to pause, to move out of autopilot (our primitive survival brain) and engage our prefrontal cortex, the part of the brain responsible for reflection, empathy, and long-term thinking. 

It’s also worth noting that not all wisdom is logical. Much of what we know from life experience, intuition, or values lives below the surface of our conscious awareness. A Wise Mind helps us access this quieter inner knowing, which often gets drowned out by urgency or emotional noise. 

🧘‍♀️ A Simple Practice: 

Next time you’re unsure how to respond; try a 30-second pause before responding and ask yourself: 

 👉 “What would my Wise Mind say right now?” 

This question creates a gap between stimulus and response and giving your best self, time to speak.